The Inexplicable World of Korea

As a foreigner, it's really easy to get caught up saying 'this would never happen back home' or making comparisons. But is it really fair to compare?

We grew up in a free country, where women's rights, multiculturalism, and yes, even the gay movement have made grounds. Koreans, however, had their country occupied by Japan for over 30 years in the early 1900s. Then, after they gained freedom, there was a civil war, fueled by the Russians and the Americans (communism vs. capitalism). They haven't really had time to develop all their individual rights or move into the 21st century, until now. This country was poorer than some African countries after the Korean War in the 50s. They have few natural resources and thus, have pushed their human resources. Now, South Korea is one of the most prosperous countries in the world, especially for technology (Samsung, Hyundai, LG, or Kia anyone?). Here in Korea, things can seem a little backward. There is this hierarchy that you cannot break. Foreigners, aka non-Koreans, are looked down upon. And being different, like being gay or marrying a non-Korean, is also not common. Preserving the Korean heritage is a big deal.

Before I moved here I was told that there is a honeymoon phase, where everything is new and exciting. Then there is a bitter phase where suddenly nothing in Korea is good enough. I don't know if I've hit this phase, but I can say I've been uttering the words 'this would never happen in Canada' quite a lot lately.

So in my attempt to share (and perhaps lighten) my bitterness, I'm going to post things about the inexplicable world of Korea. Starting with something we 'stumbled' upon yesterday while walking to the grocery store. Luckily, JM looked down in time to avoid the manhole.

No signs, no pylons. Just a giant hole in the sidewalk.

That would have hurt.